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How do you prepare for child custody mediation?

On Behalf of | Jul 3, 2024 | Family Law

You and your spouse don’t need to go to court to handle child custody matters during divorce. If possible, a mediator can help you handle such discussions outside court.

But how do you prepare for child custody mediation to ensure you don’t make costly mistakes?

Here is how:

1. Write down your concerns

Have a list of the issues you want to discuss during the meeting. If you want sole custody, write down why you believe this is in your child’s best interest. If joint custody is an option, list your concerns, perhaps the other parent lives far away or works long hours and so on.

Note that the other parent may also have concerns. Thus, you should keep an open mind and be ready to listen to them attentively.

2. Sketch out a parenting plan 

Only using verbal explanations for your ideas concerning custody schedules may not be the best option. You need visuals. Thus, consider creating a sample parenting plan. You can have a flexible calendar with ideas of how your child will move between the two homes every week – not forgetting holidays and vacations. 

3. Come prepared with documents

Gather documents that support your choice of custody type and the presented parenting plan. These include your work schedule and your kid’s school schedule. If you want sole custody due to a history of abuse from the other parent, gather police reports if you have any and so on.

4. Be ready to stay calm

Child custody mediation can be emotional since your child’s future is at stake. Nonetheless, you should be ready to stay calm during the meeting. Raising your voice, name-calling or interrupting the other parent may disadvantage you.

Preparing for child custody mediation can help you make informed decisions. You should also consider legal guidance to protect your parenting rights.